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May 31, 2018 / paulio10

Calendar Appointments and Tasks Similarities

Calendar appointments and tasks are more similar to each other than we think: tasks are just appointments that should be done sometime soon, and they roll over to tomorrow if not done today.  Tasks usually have a date after which it becomes an emergency, if they are not done – and dates, that’s a calendar thing! So tasks are very similar to calendar appointments.Calendar appointments and tasks are more similar to each other than we think: tasks are just appointments that should be done sometime soon, and they roll over to tomorrow if not done today.  Tasks usually have a date after which it becomes an emergency, if they are not done – and dates, that’s a calendar thing! So tasks are very similar to calendar appointments.

The generic form of both calendar appointments and tasks is:

Wait For X to happen, Then do Y.

Some tasks just don’t have a “Wait For” part to them.

For many tasks, the “Wait For” part is not time-based, it’s more of an event of some sort.  Like, “Wait For Joe to give me the receipt, Then return the faucet to Home Depot.”  That task keeps moving forward until you have the receipt in hand. It bugs you, sitting there on your to-do list, every day that Joe doesn’t give you that receipt, so you remind him regularly about it, because you want to check this item off your list.

Many projects we create in business and especially in real estate investing include a typical set of tasks and dependencies that are largely similar, every time, sometimes with a few variations.  You should be able to create a template of the tasks in a specific order, and give them a name – and add that whole set of tasks to your calendar all at once.  Boom.  This way you can operate at a higher level — for example, “a new tenant has just signed the lease to rent a unit from us, now the following set of tasks are added to our task list (because we didn’t want them on the list before now): email them the HOA’s CC&R’s for the neighborhood, email them the short-list that tells when trash/recycle day of the week is, where the mailbox and community pool are, rules about weeds in front yard and parking on the street; record tenant information in our contact list for future use; notify the HOA of new tenant name and phone #; wait for tenant to return Move-In sheet (remind me 1 week from now if they haven’t returned it); and give them the keys and garage-door-remotes that we agreed upon in the lease.”  All this should be a single operation – add these items to my calendar & task list – because they all go together as a group.  If they hadn’t signed the lease for whatever reason, none of these items should be added to my calendar & task list.

It’s so much easier to work from a very specific, achievable list of work to be done.  There’s a time for high-level thinking about what overall needs to be done, but the rest of the time, it’s so much easier if you have a list of spelled out steps that you can follow to get the bulk of the work done.  Those two ways of thinking are completely different, and interfere with each other. In a small business, you have to think both ways at different times.

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April 25, 2018 / paulio10

Stop Fake News with a P2P Trust System

How can we completely prevent the problem of Fake News? How can you be certain that the news story you are reading has been vetted by people you can trust to do the research and express their opinion of the piece in a properly unbiased manner? How can you filter on that certainty rating so that you never see news that you don’t personally believe is trustworthy, or hasn’t been properly vetted yet?

There are web sites whose purpose is to analyze political news stories for you and describe their research results and give the news story a rating – for example, politifact.com is a good one. But can you be sure that they aren’t biasing their analysis in some direction? It’s good to have another perspective, but if you can’t verify yourself that they are writing in a trustworthy manner, without special-interests coloring their writing, then you’re back to square one – you don’t know what to believe.

Believe it or not, these are solvable problems. Here’s my proposal.

We need to build a Chain of Trust – each person identifies who they directly trust to write accurate articles, that trust level is combined with other people’s trust levels, in a giant linked graph, much like peer-to-peer encryption services such as PGP and GPG. It could even use an algorithmic block-chain such as Ethereum to store the trust metrics, so that the data cannot be changed after-the-fact by anyone other than the owner of the data – nobody could change your trust-metrics except you.

When an author writes an article and their trusted local friends read it and research it, and write their own reviews – these reviews can be stored on web sites like usual with digital signatures on them to prove they haven’t been tampered with in any way. These reviews would have a certainty factor for how certain the reviewer is that the information provided by the author of the original article is accurate. They could write comments about agreements and disagreements with the accuracy, and in fact, the best reviews would have both components; any one-sided-only reviews could be considered suspect.

You, the reader of the article, will have a way to automatically verify who wrote it (check the digital signature), and then look up the shortest-path trust-route between yourself and the author on that graph of links between people, to see how much you trust them.  You can trust them as much as you trust person A, who trusts person B, who trusts person C, who trusts the author.  If there is a better trust relationship between person A and person C, then person B’s trust level can be skipped, and your shortest-path trust route would be to person A, person C, and the author.

The arcs between people have values that represent the amount of trust they have for each other.  It’s a DiGraph – each direction can have a separate value – for example, Joe trusts Sam .5 out of 1.0, but Sam says he only trusts Joe about .35 out of 1.0.  Each person can choose any trust value (0.0 – 1.0).

Should the arcs of the DiGraph also have a third value, the value of Topic?  For example, I trust what an athlete has to say about sports or fitness more than what they have to say about politics, science, software debugging, spirituality, solving world problems, etc.  Each topic would have a rating that starts out at zero.  So for example, maybe Shaq would get a rating of .95 from me about Basketball, .75 about sports in general, .85 about strength and speed training, .7 about weight-lifting, .4 about long distance running, and .1 about world issues and politics.  And I could change those values later, if I discover his hobby is researching world hunger, so I could set that value to 0.6 or 0.7 if I feel he is a valuable resource at those things; or 0.2 if he appears to be learning it, but not real good at it yet.

If an article pops up by someone who has NO connections to you in the graph yet, you should ignore the article – there is no trust for you (yet).  If you want to see whether there is any merit to an article they wrote, you would look into how you can establish 1 or more connections to them thru people you know, before reading the article.  “Gee, I would love to listen to you, but there’s no foundation yet for me to do so.  Sorry.” A person calling you from out of the blue or knocking on the door to sell you something would not be able to convince you of anything, and rightly so.

You could improve your graph-trust connections to individuals by spending more of your own time researching what they wrote for yourself, which might be time-consuming, but worthwhile to improve that connection. The value of these graph links helps you not have to do this most of the time – so if you chose to do so, you would be providing a service to the world – not just for yourself, since others would benefit from the closer graph connection between you and the person you are investigating.

Specific example with numbers

Suppose some person A wrote an article.  You don’t trust A. You trust person C, but C doesn’t trust A either.  However, C trusts B and B trusts A, so the chain of trust looks like this:

B trusts A with a trust-value of 0.8,

C trusts B with a trust-value of 0.9,

you trust C with a trust-value of 0.75

The overall trust you have, therefore, for person A, would be 0.8 * 0.9 * 0.75 = 0.54.  Which means, you somewhat trust this person 3-hops-away from you, but not very much; you might read their article with a grain of salt.

Now if A can get B to trust them more, 0.92 for example, then everybody who trusts B will see A’s articles more often; your trust-score would become 0.92 * 0.9 * 0.75 = 0.62.  The real problem here is the link between you and C.  If C behaves in a way that helps you to trust them more and you increase your trust value for them to 0.85, that has a dramatic increase on everything they relay to you – the math for the article above is now 0.92 * 0.9 * 0.85 = .70, which makes you a bit more likely to believe the contents of the article than before.

You could set a “reflection” threshold of .95, so that any article you trust super highly will get automatically re-sent by you for others to see, ala “retweeting” an article with Twitter.

An article you write yourself is the equivalent of 1.0 trust, for you – because you trust yourself implicitly.  Therefore, all articles you write will be published to your blog/twitter/facebook every time by the reflection algorithm.

Multiple Paths thru the Chain of Trust

When there are multiple ways of going from the person who wrote the article back to you, the path with the highest values when multiplied together is the real value between you and the writer. This causes weaker links between you and them to fall away. It also encourages shorter paths – because each link is technically taking away some of the “juice” from the trust score.  Of course you can trust a writer more if you’re 2-hops away from them, more than if they’re 10 hops away – it makes sense.

Verifiers of the written article

If you do deep research and write a verification of someone’s article, that trust value you assign to the article overrides the trust value normally associated between you and that person.  For example if you directly trust a writer with a value of 0.8, but you just read an article by them which you’ve vetted and discovered to be false, you can mark that specific article with a trust-value of 0.2, or 20%, meaning that you thought some of the information was correct but most of it was not; maybe 1/5th was correct and 4/5ths was incorrect in some way.

The new trust-value you created will impact their trust-value according to some algorithm, like maybe averaging the two together. This new trust value is then relayed to your friends (direct connected nodes in the graph) to affect their trust levels – it will affect not just the things that this author wrote, but connections through that author to other authors, friends, family, other people they are directly connected with.

 

January 4, 2018 / paulio10

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

In mid-December, before Christmas, I reviewed everything I could find about all the good things that happened with my family during the past year, because memory fades; I like to combat my annual end-of-year depressive feelings with actual evidence – all the different ways I helped my community and neighborhood, big things and small; all the fun things we did, the projects I actually completed, trips and holidays, all the changes for the better that occurred during the year.

That prepares me to do the next step: review my past year’s goals, see what was completed and what is still left to be done; and for creating my next years goals – which is very inspiring to me because it creates the energy and feelings of the future in my consciousness – something I desperately need at the end of every year.

So I did all of that in December, thankfully; but then I caught a bad cold after Christmas, which I’m still fighting off today, though I’m feeling a bit better now. The problem is, I let my tickler file go.

Today I am trying to catch up on my tickler file; tasks and reminders I had scheduled myself to do on specific days of future weeks and months. Since every day has actionable items, I really am supposed to check the “today” folder each day, but I kind of let it go for the last week or so. Now I need to go thru the last few December items and make sure I didn’t miss anything important while I was sick, and look at the January folder.

You see, with a physical paper-folder style tickler system, you have folders representing each day of the month (1-31) that cycle around and around, the front one is always “today”. And you have folders for each of the months (Jan-Dec), with the “next month” one placed just in front of the “1” (first day of the month) folder.  This way, at the end of the month, after you see what’s in the “31” folder, the very next folder is the next-month one; followed by the “1” folder for next month. So, to catch up, I needed to look at folders:  28, 29, 30, 31, January, 1, 2, 3, 4, since today is January 4th.

This probably sounds old-fashioned, and you’re thinking, why don’t you just use an electronic calendar like everybody else?  Well I do use electronic calendars too; but there are a few reasons a physical tickler file is better. First, low-tech drains less of your energy to “create” and “edit” items – it’s a piece of paper and a pencil. Your brain can focus on what it is you’re trying to accomplish, and scribble it down – very simple and easy. Need more room? Grab another page! Digital calendars are much harder and more stressful, to find the right thing to click on, to do what you’re trying to do.  Any struggle subtracts from your concentration on the task at hand. Also, tickler files are great because you can schedule recurring things in more real-life combinations – I have items I only do every 2 months or 3 months or 6 months; things I only do every 2 weeks; something to do next Friday AND 4 Friday’s from now; etc.  And, no calendar I ever saw can handle this – for recurring events, if I don’t actually process the item for a few days or a week, I can scoot out all remaining repetitions of the item by that many days or weeks! This makes sense for some things like doing backups, or changing the air filters in your home. If you try to replace the air filter monthly, but you let it slip 2 weeks this time (oops!), the next time to change it isn’t only TWO more weeks out; it’s a full month from now – all future times for changing these air filters have pushed out further into the future. Digital calendars don’t easily support this feature.

It’s always surprising how many things are stored in these tickler folders, it’s usually more than I expect. The human mind is so good at forgetting things without letting us know what is missing, or even how much is missing. You just don’t know. If you track everything in some kind of filing system or database, so that you won’t miss anything in the future that you ever thought of, you will be astonished at the large quantity of items you would have otherwise forgotten you had planned on doing.

I already knew this, I’ve been doing this for years; but today, when I opened that January month-folder, I could not believe the vast amount of stuff that had accumulated “to be done” in January, according to my past self, during 2017!

There were 33 items in there.  I’ve never seen so big a tickler folder before!  It looked way too daunting.

I thought I’d break down these items for you – not just as a strange snapshot into the inner workings of someone else’s busy life, which people rarely share; but also, for you to notice how many of these things fall into the category of “I would have forgotten that!” if it had not been written on a piece of paper and stashed into some folder to be reviewed again at the proper time – right NOW.

The items from my January folder, in no particular order –

  1. reminder to close two bank accounts at my old bank no sooner than January 16, because the last few charges & fees will have cleared by then.  (I moved this to my “16” folder, now that it’s January)
  2. reminder to edit my “10 year plan” document, which I do each year in December, to help plan our financial goals and other goals for the next year. I actually did this earlier; filing it away for next year.
  3. Look at our savings spreadsheet’s total columns to see if we met the goals we planned for by the end of the year.  I already did this; we did meet the most important savings goal, and still have a ways to go on the other one. Moved tickler item out 3 months.
  4. A reminder that our STARZ streaming subscription is still active; so I can decide if I want to delete it or not.  Monthly charges are annoying.  Decided to keep it 1 more month; moving it to February folder.
  5. A reminder that my car repair guy referred me to an engine-cleaning place, so we can see if the mysterious oil leak is properly fixed; I haven’t seen any drips for a long time, so I’m deciding not to do this one. But I don’t want to throw away the referral flyer; moving it to my Reference materials folder instead.  Out of sight, out of mind; I can always get it back later if I need it.
  6. A reminder to write an inspiring letter to my son about something I thought of a month or so ago, for the new year. Saving for a few days from now, when I am feeling better.
  7. My “backups” instruction list — is it that time already? I manually back up every 2 months: online contacts, mail filters (that are so important to me), certain constantly changing files, my greasemonkey and tampermonkey scripts, my todo lists and project lists (stored in the cloud), my Pinboard bookmarks, my various blogs, and my browser bookmarks. If it’s stored in the cloud, or locally on my computer, it WILL get lost/damaged/destroyed some day. Systems fail; companies suddenly close their doors; it will be my failing, not theirs, if I didn’t have my own copies of this data that is so important to me.  This page has step-by-step instructions of how I did these things last time, so it’s a no-brainer this time. I moved this item to be done in a few days.
  8. A reminder of an important conference coming up in March; I need to figure out where the money will come from to pay for it, register for it, get the time off work, and reserve the time on my work-calendar, according to what I wrote here.
  9. A reminder of a friend coming to visit in February.
  10. A reminder about a great idea for a future project I had, but don’t want to start yet; I moved it forward to think about in a few months.
  11. A note to myself about if I’m retiring this year (no, not for many years!), a change I can make to one of my LLCs that will be very important going forward. Put that back in for next year. (I have no good way to “tickler” something for many years in the future)
  12. Run MS Malicious SW Removal Tool on our laptops. I try to do this on a quarterly basis, even though it never finds anything (good). It doesn’t auto-run. I moved this out a couple days.
  13. Annual mileage chart – I always record the ending mileage from our cars each year, I’ll need it for tax preparation next month – I must do this first thing tomorrow. Looks like in 2016 we logged 19300 miles across 2 cars, and 2015 we logged 26400 miles; it will be interesting to see how last year played out.
  14. A reminder of when different business-taxes due dates are; Jan 15-30 = send W-2’s; Jan 15-28 fill out 1096’s and 1099’s if any; we do these ourselves because CPA’s charge too much for something that’s pretty simple once you know how to do it. Feb 15-28 we should complete business taxes; March to complete personal taxes. I will keep moving this one forward as a reminder.
  15. A note to call somebody I know at least 3-4 times this month, because, according to this paper (in my own handwriting!) they often feel sad during January, they told me that last year. I don’t remember writing this!  Good thing I did though; I hate missing opportunities to really help someone at a crucial time.
  16. A reminder to move any receipts I put in the wrong 2 folders, into the right 2 folders; I remember this screwed me up a couple years ago, I missed out on some tax writeoffs because I couldn’t find the receipts until later; so I always do this at the end of the year now.  I stopped and checked it just now since it’s so quick.
  17. A reminder to hold an annual meeting for one LLC that is a two-member LLC, with a list of the bits of information we should record, since my CPA always likes to see that during tax prep time.
  18. A reminder to order any valentines items online before the last week in January, because I got so mad that one year when I waited too long and everything was marked up extra, for valentines day.  I decided to plan ahead from now on. This I will do later this month.
  19. Prepare an end of year business statement for a trust that I manage for a family member. I’m happy to do it, takes maybe half an hour. I will do this later in Jan.
  20. a duplicate tickler item; throwing it away.
  21. Create a fresh “letter of income” for the trust related family member. Easy, takes 5 mins because I wrote down where I can find last year’s letter, I can just copy and edit it a little; I decided to stop and do it right now.
  22. A reminder to read more about the Tesla Model 3, which (at the time I wrote this page) was not shipping yet. I’ve been keeping up on the news; I’ll toss this one.
  23. A note about how certain taxes work and who to contact for questions; I think I had problems with this last year and needed a nice cheat-sheet like this.
  24. Download the tax planners from my CPA’s web site, with links, and which planners we used last year.
  25. A reminder for Jan 2027 to remind a family member that their passport will expire in March 2027, and they should renew it, because I know this person will probably forget. They don’t have a tickler system. But you know what? During the past year I learned you should renew your passport 1 year before it expires, because there are some countries that balk at honoring passports less than a year from expiring! So, I edited this tickler to go off on March 2026, instead, and put it into the March folder.
  26. A reminder list of passport expiration dates for everyone in my immediate family, so I can remember to get them a new passport before 1 year away from the end. In fact, one expired last year in January, it’s nice to see we got them a new passport since then.
  27. another duplicate; tossing this one.
  28. Reminder to burn a beeswax candle in tribute for my mother’s passing day coming up in a few days.  I may do this; filing away for next year.
  29. An obsolete item that only applied to last year; must have forgotten to throw it away last January.
  30. Reminder that the Hot Air Balloon event happens in late January! We missed it a couple years in a row, didn’t want to miss it this year. Their web site usually isn’t updated until a month or two before, so I couldn’t buy tickets or schedule it on our calendar before now.  The next step is to google this for our state, and put it on our family calendar if we want to go to it. I scheduled a task for Saturday to google it and decide what to do then.
  31. Our IRA investment fee-balance accounts need replenishing in January – this page tells me step-by-step how to do it, because the custodian has a very weird and confusing process. So easy, now that I have the steps in front of me. I’ll do this Saturday.
  32. Our local real estate group membership expires this month – I wrote down the discount code, so I can renew with a discount. Saturday.
  33. clean the air filter in our upstairs AC window unit – I try to do this every 2 months. And a reminder to press the reset button so the “filter” light goes out.  Saturday; and moving this to March folder.

Well that was a crazy assortment of stuff.  All of it was important to me at some point in the past; and still is.  And this only worked because I followed up today, to complete the loop.  The past-me hoped future-me would take action on these things in January 2018; the current-me says “I don’t know where all this came from, but I don’t mind doing these things because they’re the right things to do.”

And so it goes.  Happy New Year!

October 25, 2017 / paulio10

Next Generation Money System

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I wrote a medium post about the Next Generation Money System.  Check it out.

August 3, 2017 / paulio10

Instant Mashed Potatoes

With the instant mashed potatoes box that I sometimes buy, the directions on the back has a “4 servings” option (which isn’t enough for two people) and an “8 servings” option (too much for two people).

So I averaged the numbers to get “6 servings”, and something very strange happened (besides being just right for two people):

The numbers worked out far better than the other sizes!

The other sizes all have “1/3” and “2/3” in many of the numbers, making you use 2 or 3 measuring cups for everything. All those fractions dropped away, and I was left with nice round numbers – fewer measuring cups.

I’ve known this for about 15 years now. They really should print this option on the box.

Funny company!

June 13, 2017 / paulio10

Advanced Trick for Capping Munzees

This article will probably only be useful to a very few (possibly none) of my followers who play the GPS based game “Munzee” on their phone.

Munzee, for those who don’t know, is an outdoor game where you hunt down QR codes (square-dots bar codes) that have been placed in public locations, often on light-poles or the backs of signs, and you scan them with your phone’s Munzee app – and receive points. A bunch of points, usually. Precious, yummy points! As of June 2017 I have 88,921 points (level 100).

There are many types of munzees people can put around public places, and different things can happen with some of the munzees (fire munzees can light other munzees on fire (and if you scan them you get more points), ice munzees can freeze you or you can get extra points, plant munzees can grow, etc.) There are a few munzees now that disappear and reappear, you have to get them only when they’re visible on the map, such as when the CEO of the company did not come in to work that day (a funny inside joke I guess). There are also virtual munzees where you only have to be somewhat near the location to scan it – no QR code required. Sometimes you’ll see those on a pond, just stand by the shore, click the munzee icon on the map, and click the scan button to capture (cap) it.

Munzee is a fun game that’s way faster and easier than Geocaching, if you’ve ever heard of that. The home base of Munzee is in Texas. You can even join teams, and get extra free stuff (like new munzees to place on the map yourself) if you meet group goals.

Anyway.

The advanced Munzee Capping trick I figured out is this:

If you’re approaching a location with a lot of people around and you don’t want to stand there like a dork trying to scan a QR code for 15 seconds, moving your phone around, craning your head, rotating your phone, whispering “come on….!”, and generally calling attention to yourself – there’s a way you can force it to scan in 1 second or less.

The trick is this: while approaching the QR code location (when you’re still 10-12 feet away), click the scan icon so it switches to “camera” mode, and hold your other hand about a foot in front of the camera lens, as if you’re trying to take a picture of your entire hand. You can aim it across your body so your two hands are horizontal in front of you, basically aiming the camera at your other hand without looking at it.  Keep holding it there while walking up … and when you get so close that the phone is the same distance from the QR code as it is from your hand, rotate the phone quickly to point at the QR code! It will scan instantly!

This works because your phone always does a handful of things to get ready to scan a QR code, before it’s ready to scan it.  It has to focus the lens – when the camera is first turned on, it has to sense how far away the center object is (center of the picture generally), then it has to adjust the focus to that distance, then (because it’s not exactly right) it has to focus in & out a couple times… all of this just takes too much time – precious seconds of embarrassment-causing frustration.

You have to get good at knowing where your phone’s focus is, in the space in front of the camera. Does your phone have its camera at the top, or middle?  Left side, right side, or centered?  Practice a little, looking at an object maybe 1-2 feet away and see if you can point your camera directly at it, so the object is in the center of the frame on the screen, not off to the left/right, or too high/low. Get used to your phone that way, see if you can “feel” that spot in front of your camera, so your hand positions it right every time. Position your hand at that exact spot while walking up to the QR code.

Using this trick you can now walk right up and BAM! scan that QR code. You don’t even have to stop walking. People looking in your direction won’t even know you did anything!

It’s a neat trick that I use upon occasion, like during Frisbee Golf season in the park that has a ton of Munzees along the pathways that I always like to visit.

If you want to try capping some Munzees, create an account for yourself at www.munzee.com. Then come back and scan this QR code to get you started! The game is free, and a lot of fun.

Munzee is a great way to get exercise, especially when the weather is nice. Just take a look at the map of the area around you and see how many munzees are all around you. I bet there are a lot.

May 20, 2017 / paulio10

No Energy today? Let’s fix that…

Do you have no energy, today?
Why is that?
Why don’t you have 10 times the energy you do, today?
You can.

There are forces within you that are fighting against the real you, blocking 90% of your energy.
What forces are those? Many of them are things you learned from your family when you were growing up.
Many of them are from our broken ass society and its strict guidelines and subtle mind-washing techniques
to convince you that you are wrong when you express things in a natural way for you, but that does not
fit into the predefined prearranged society limitations imposed decades and centuries ago in our
twisted ridiculous society.
Why do you put up with that shit, still.
Why do you think that you have to continue to accept the bullshit once you start to realize the
limitations all around you? You can reject them any time you want to!
Why don’t you do that today.
Your reward will be
* increased health
* increased energy
* increased simplicity
* increased accomplishments along the lines that are the most important to you, whatever that may be

All you have to do to realize it is
(1) work to live as a person with more energy and direction than the bullshit centuries-retarded society we live in
(2) pick out high-energy songs that you love listening to
(3) occasionally drink 2-3 alcoholic drinks and listen to your music, because it can fire you up.
BAM! Now you get it!

So how do you have more energy?

It’s time to schedule the things that are important to you.
RIGHT NOW write down on a single piece of paper the 3 most important things to you.
Next, immediately schedule those things on your calendar – get them done, don’t let it slip.
You should even begin one of them right now, immediately.
These are more important than the other things on your calendar.

BUT WAIT! You say that you can’t “accomplish” these items, they’re too big?
Oh, that’s easy.
The first step is to just WRITE DOWN the things most important to you – it can
be hard to define it sometimes, this is a really important step.
Don’t just leave it floating in limbo, in your mind, as a foggy dream. Write
it down. Write in vivid detail – what is it you really want.

The next part is actually easier, the act of actually doing the work; here’s how you do that.

Read the thing you wrote down, and break it down into individual steps that
you can accomplish. It may be such a big project that when you break it into pieces,
each piece STILL cannot be completed!
But then you take each of those pieces, and break them down again,
and eventually you get down to small achievable pieces of work that can be done by you,
or delegated to other people to do for you.

But what if you don’t know what the next step is?
That’s easy, the next step is to research what the next step is.
Another way to think of it: “how has ANYBODY EVER done that, ever, anywhere in the world?”
Get mad, and think to yourself, “if anybody ever did this, I can do it.
I will learn what they did and do it myself BECAUSE I FUCKING FEEL LIKE IT.”

Each piece of work should have at least one of these things:

  1. a task that can be accomplished by you in a single sitting, all at one time.
  2. research – when you don’t know how something works you should
    research it on the Internet and ADD MORE TASKS from that to your list.
  3. a task that can be delegated to someone else – ask them to work on it right
    away, if appropriate; you don’t check it off until they have completed it.
    That way you can monitor if they have done it or not, because they might forget.
    Bug them about it. They must get it done, or you take it away and make it happen
    some other way.
  4. When you don’t know how to continue, ask experts in your life.
    Research who is the best at this topic, and ask them.
    Research who has ever done this before? What business/company? Ask them how
    to do it, ask them for help. You will be surprised, they will not only be
    happy to help you, they will be impressed with you that you asked them about
    something that is so important to them!

When you feel really stuck, when you just can’t come up with any next-step and have no idea what to do,
the next step is BRAINSTORMING.

Creatively write FIVE THINGS you can do as the next step to get un-stuck,
FIVE WAYS to fix the problem stopping you. (or 3 things, at the very least!)
“But I can’t think of anything!” No, you can think of everything!
but you’re going to filter that “everything” down to a small set of 5 things
you could do next, as possible next steps.
If your mind tells you a crazy or unreasonable next step, write it down anyway
to clear your mind from that item so it is free to think of another one.
You can always strike out the crazy ones from your list later on.

Now go and try them, one after another, until one of them actually works.
Start with most likely one first, or, just start with item #1.
YOU WILL BE AMAZED – one of these things will actually work!
In the unlikely event that you burn thru all 5 items and nothing worked,
you know a lot more now — make a new list; ask for help from an expert
or a friend or significant other, if you need to.

For example my wife said to me the other day, around 8PM:
“I can’t even exercise now, but I really want to.”
I asked her why she can’t exercise.
She said, “because it’s too cold outside, and I hate going to the yoga studio I was at;
I don’t like the people there; I don’t want to go back. Besides it’s getting late and I’m tired.”
I said, “there’s lots of other ways you can get exercise; name 3 more ways you can do it.”
She said “I can’t think of anything…”
So I went into Creative Naming Five Things mode.

I quickly listed out loud:

  • call 3 more yoga studios, arrange to go each of them, pick the best
    one, and stick with it.
  • do a google search for “exercise” and our city name. Call 3 of those and see if
    you can get a free session to each one.
  • Run around the living room and dining room 50 times, count it, and
    let our dog run with you, he loves that.
  • Take the dog for a walk in the park, and get him to run – let him off the
    leash, and try to keep up with him. If you get into trouble, so what,
    you don’t have to do it again, but you got exercise today.
  • Put on the biggest coat you can find (with 2 sweaters underneath) and see
    if you can ride your bike to the nearest park, take a picture, and come back again.
    I bet you can’t do it! I challenge you! That picture will be your proof!
  • Roll a 6-sided die to decide how many “sets” of 10 pushups you’re
    going to do (1 = 10, 2 = 20, 3 = 30, etc.)
    When you can’t do any more pushups, switch to leg-lunges.
  • Do 100 jumping jacks.
  • Look through our DVDs and find the old exercise videos we have –
    decide you’re going to go once-each thru EVERY DVD WE HAVE in sequence,
    just because you can! Prove that you did them ALL. One per day.
  • See if you can find a free exercise video on the Internet, and exercise to it.
  • See if you can find a video on the Internet with a hot exercise guy you can follow.
  • Find 2 or 3 songs that are total energy to you, that drives you to exercise harder,
    and pick your favorite exercise from the above things – go to it.

She was surprised by this, I don’t think she was thinking as widely as I was about exercise.

She ended up switching yoga studios, and riding her bike around the neighborhood.

If you don’t like something, don’t do it again after trying it once.
You might be surprised to find one of these is really fun, and you want to do
it over and over again.

Literally ANYTHING can be accomplished with these tricks and other productivity tricks
that you read in blogs, books, and other resources.

DON’T PUT UP WITH GETTING STUCK.

Sometimes anger can be a motivation force when used properly.
There’s destructive anger, and righteous anger. That second one is what you
want to practice if you can.

For example, with the situation where my wife did not want to return to the old yoga studio:
if I was her, I would have said, “screw that studio! I will never go back there ever again!
I will find 3-5 more studios, and choose a much much better one. I’ll show them.
Each time I go to the new studio I found, I will think about how much better this studio is
than the other one. I’ll tell the instructor specific ways that I’ve observed their studio
is better than my old one, to inspire them.”

Righteous anger can drive you forward, and is not destructive but constructive –
it motivates and empowers positive construction.

If other people ever tell you “NO, it can’t be done,” what they’re really
saying is that THEY cannot do it. And that’s fine. They’re losers, they are people who
always give up too easy. You’re not one of them anymore. You’re going to find
the answer, the way, to get the work done that you believe in, to make change in
this crazy world for yourself and for others. You uniquely have energy now, direction now,
to get something actually done in a world that has never experienced what
you uniquely are bringing to the table. Thank God you’re here.

In comparison to how powerful you’re becoming as you practice these things,
our society is relatively slow and limiting and stupid. I’m sorry you have to live here,
but you don’t have to bow-down to failure and limitation any more.
You know the secrets now. Stand up for yourself. It’s time.

Energy songs I’d like to suggest:

Burn – Ellie Goulding
Monster – Paramore
I Just Wanna Live – Good Charlotte
Lips Like Morphine – Kill Hannah
Return to Innocense – Enigma
It’s Amazing – Jem
Let It Rock – Kevin Rudolf
Ladies and Gentlemen – Saliva
My House – Pvris
Crazy – Gnarles Barkley
Discotechque – U2
Hallelujah – Paramore
Volcano Girls – Veruca Salt
4 Minutes – Justin Timberlake & Madonna
Gimme Sympathy – Metric (I especially like the video of this one on YouTube)
Can’t Stop – Red Hot Chili Peppers
E.T. – Katy Perry
Always Up With You – Alphabeat
Never Let Me Down Again – Depeche Mode
Nobody Move, Nobody Get Hurt – We Are Scientists
Walking In My Shoes – Depeche Mode
Gone – U2
Its No Good – Depeche Mode
Strangelove – Depeche Mode
The Spell – Alphabeat
Hole In My Heart – Alphabeat
The Pretender – Foo Fighters
Under The Bridge – Red Hot Chili Peppers
One More Night – Maroon 5
Push It – Garbage
A Stroke Of Luck – Garbage
The Distance – Cake
World Comin’ Down – Billy Idol
It’s Nice To Know You Work Alone – Silversun Pickups
Meet Me Halfway – Black Eyed Peas
Missing You – The Black Eyed Peas
Spiderwebs – No Doubt
Just A Girl – No Doubt
crushcrushcrush – Paramore
Misery Business – Paramore
It’s Not Over – Daughtry
I Made It – Kevin Rudolf
You Made The Rain Fall – Kevin Rudolf
Trans Fatty Acid – Kruder and Dorfmeister remix / Lamb
Worth The Wait – We Are Scientists
Seventeen – Lady Tron

If you don’t like some of these songs, don’t listen to them, it’s fine.
But did you find one AMAZING song that completely blows you away?
Search out more songs from that band.
You might find more amazing songs by them, maybe you’ll buy the whole album;
or maybe you’ll hate all the rest of their other songs, they only had one good one.
Both of those situations have happened to me. It doesn’t matter.

What other songs/bands are like that awesome one you found? Listen to those next.
At least you found one good one. Services like Pandora, YouTube, Spotify, and Amazon
have ways to suggest new music that’s possibly “like” the one you just listened to –
great way to find new music.

Plus, their basic services are free — lack of money is no excuse to get started.

Music is medicine, it heals such a wide-variety of ailments we have today
within our emotional and mental bodies.

Where have you been?

You don’t have to love the songs I love. The songs above are my energy songs.
You can find yours if you want to. Find what works for you.
Don’t put up with small – make it BIG.

Nothing here is incremental. Go BIG. Stand tall and move forward.
Some weeks and months and years you feel like you’ve made no progress.
Others times you IMMEDIATELY step up and reach the next level.
This is true for music and healing, too.

What I want you to realize is:

  1. Nothing is TOO MUCH for you, it’s all OK, it’s all acceptable.
    You aren’t going to be hurt by any of it. You can listen to any music,
    absorb everything about it, like it/hate it, and still be yourself.
  2. There is a maximum amount of energy, and you can reach the end, at least in
    our physical world, and it’s OK to experience the maximum, it doesn’t hurt you.
    You don’t have to shy away from it and avoid it. It saps too much of your
    energy to shy away and hide from life. Step forward and experience it.
  3. This prepares you for ANYTHING that life can throw at you, there is nothing
    to be afraid of or apprehensive in any way, any more.
    You can see anything, know anything, do anything, communicate with anyone,
    partially thanks to the Internet.
  4. Have to give a speech in front of a crowd of people?
    What CAN’T you say? You can say anything. As long as you know it and mean it!
    No fear, because the fear can be all gone now, magically, mystically.
    Because actually it never existed, you just fell for a trick; but no more.

On 4/16/2017 I gave a super good eulogy for Frank P. Falewicz, the father of my wife,
at a church full of people I sort of knew, and many I didn’t know.
But I didn’t care. I just did it. I only had minimal preparation
(I typed up some quick bullets in a text file on my phone a half-hour before).
It was easy. Nothing to it. I worked hard to get to this point.

Dare your life to give you a challenge! Don’t let life be boring!
May life rise up and meet your new-found energy level!

You can reach this point if I reached it. Because why not?
I was born, once, like you. We both lived a number of years, and we know the
things we know and can do the things we can do.
I was such a shy child, painfully shy. But not anymore.

I know that you can do everything I can do.
It just takes practice, training, self-drive to learn the things it takes to
do whatever you want to do, you feel you need to do, in this world.

Don’t just fall back to the usual – TV, movies, games, wasting time on the
Internet, etc. Understand that those are things that can calm and heal you.
They can be medicine. But don’t spend ALL your time on those things.

Use them judiciously.

You have important work to do.
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